HATLEY, Wisconsin — Jacob John Onesti, 38, of Hatley, Wisconsin, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, October 20, 2026, following a motor vehicle accident. His passing leaves his wife, children, parents, extended family, and close friends grieving the loss of a devoted husband, loving father, and hardworking business owner.
Born on May 9, 1988, in Wausau to Jim and Jenny (Goldsberry) Onesti, Jacob built a life centered on family, outdoor adventures, and the work he took pride in. He was especially devoted to his wife, Rebecca “Becky” Szews, and their children, Levi and Cain, finding deep happiness in the everyday experiences they shared.
His family and friends will remember him for his dedication, his love of the outdoors, and the lasting relationships he built throughout his life.
Remembering Jacob John Onesti
Jacob took great pride in providing for his family and creating a life filled with meaningful experiences alongside Becky and their children. Among the memories he treasured most were playing baseball and riding bikes with Levi, moments that reflected the importance he placed on being an involved and loving father.
He enjoyed spending time outdoors, elk hunting, traveling, and camping with his family. These activities brought together his appreciation for nature and his desire to make lasting memories with the people he loved.
Jacob was also known by the nickname “the deer skinner,” a detail that reflects his familiarity with outdoor pursuits and the personal character by which friends and family knew him.
His passing represents a profound loss for those who shared in his life, work, and family experiences.
Marriage and Family Life
Jacob married Rebecca Szews on June 21, 2014, at St. Florian’s Catholic Church in Hatley. Their marriage marked an important chapter in a life he dedicated to building a home and future with his family.
Together, Jacob and Becky raised their children, Levi and Cain. His pride in providing for them was matched by the joy he found in spending time together, whether enjoying outdoor activities, traveling, or simply sharing everyday family moments.
For Jacob, family was central to the life he worked hard to build. The memories he created with Becky and their children will remain an important part of his legacy.
Jacob Onesti’s Career and Onesti Custom Tile
For the past 10 years, Jacob owned and operated Onesti Custom Tile, a business he developed with help from his close friend Matt Alwes.
Building and maintaining a business requires commitment, practical skill, and perseverance. Jacob’s decade of work through Onesti Custom Tile reflected his dedication to his craft and his determination to provide for his family.
His partnership with Matt also represented a friendship that extended beyond professional responsibilities. As family and friends remember Jacob, his work and the relationships he developed along the way will remain part of the story of his life.
Jacob John Onesti’s Cause of Death
According to the obituary information provided, Jacob died unexpectedly on October 20, 2026, following a motor vehicle accident. Further details about the crash have not been included in the information available for this article.
The circumstances of the accident should not be speculated upon beyond the details confirmed in the family’s obituary.
Jacob Onesti’s Surviving Family
Jacob is survived by his wife, Becky; their children, Levi and Cain; and his parents, Jim and Jenny Onesti.
He is also survived by his siblings, Josh Onesti and his wife, Lindsay, and Alyssa Chroge and her husband, Kyle, along with their families. His surviving relatives include his parents-in-law, Steven and Annette Szews, as well as extended family members.
Jacob’s close friend Matt Alwes is also remembered as an important part of his life and business. His beloved pets, Gunnar and Boots, were part of the family he cherished.
He was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Johnny Goldsberry; his grandparents-in-law, Norbert and Mary Jane Szews and Edmund and Esther Ostrowski; and his cousin, Casey Duginski.
Funeral Arrangements and Celebration of Life
According to the family’s obituary information, a Mass of Christian Burial for Jacob John Onesti is scheduled for 1 p.m. Friday, October 30, 2026, at St. Florian’s Catholic Church in Hatley, Wisconsin.
Visitation will take place at the church from 9 a.m. until the service begins at 1 p.m. Burial will follow in the parish cemetery.
Rev. Junabe Villapaz and Rev. Steven Weller will officiate the service, providing an opportunity for family, friends, and community members to gather in remembrance and offer support to those closest to Jacob.
Schmidt & Schulta Funeral Home in Wittenberg is assisting the family with arrangements.
Memorial Contributions for Jacob’s Children
In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions toward a college fund for Jacob’s children, Levi and Cain.
Those who wish to honor Jacob’s memory can consider supporting this request as a way of helping provide for his children’s future. Further information about memorial contributions and arrangements can be found through the funeral home’s official website: Schmidt & Schulta Funeral Home.
Memories and messages of support may also be shared through the funeral home’s memorial page.
A Lasting Legacy of Family, Friendship, and Hard Work
Jacob John Onesti’s life was shaped by his devotion to his family, his love of the outdoors, and the work he put into building a business of his own. From playing baseball and riding bikes with his son to camping and traveling with his family, the moments he treasured reflected the life he worked hard to create.
His sudden passing is a heartbreaking loss for Becky, Levi, Cain, his parents, siblings, extended family, and the many friends who knew him. As they gather to honor his memory, the stories, experiences, and relationships they shared will remain an enduring part of his legacy.
Heartfelt condolences go out to Jacob’s wife, children, family, friends, and everyone mourning his death. May they find strength in one another and comfort in the memories of the life they shared with him.
Disclaimer
Information here is for general information purposes only. This obituary is based on the information provided for publication. Funeral arrangements and memorial contribution details should be confirmed with Schmidt & Schulta Funeral Home or the family before making plans or donations.